Approaching women with confidence – The trick to getting that illustrious date

Approaching women has always seemed like a really big deal to thousands of men who are perfectly normal in every other sense. They just don't seem to understand what is it that makes them so vulnerable to the opposite sex when they come face to face. If you too, have been facing this situation quite frequently, then I've got news for you. The number one reason why attracting women is such a hard task is because men get too anxious before saying the first word or making the first move.

Think of it this way, if you are out to buy a second hand car, and set your eyes on your dream vehicle in a rather loud fashion, i.e., ogling at it and asking the salesman about every little detail, more than is necessary, do you really expect the salesman to give you a discount. You can bet every dollar you have in your pocket at that time he won't, because he knows your want it. A similar approach works with approaching women as well. If you will be too excited to see them or talk to them, they will clearly see you as someone who is desperate to get into a relationship, a fact that would fend her off.

So, in order to ensure you have a fighting chance of getting her, act cool, exude confidence, and let your words do the rest of the magic. Remember, more than 80% of your impression has already been made before you even speak. Make yours count!